Actress Lily James is reportedly facing concerns from friends regarding her relationship with stuntman Bobby Holland Hanton, who is known for his adventurous lifestyle. The two began dating after meeting on the set of the action thriller Subversion, filmed on the Gold Coast of Australia in September 2025. Friends worry that Hanton’s party habits may be incompatible with James’ desire for a more settled life.
The couple was recently spotted leaving a concert at Alexandra Palace in London, where they enjoyed a five-hour set by DJ Solomun. A source close to James shared with the Mail on Sunday that while she is genuinely in love with Hanton, his exuberant lifestyle raises concerns. “He’s down to earth and not like the usual actors she dates, but there are worries he might get a bit too wild sometimes,” the source noted.
Hanton, 41, has had a distinguished career as a stunt double, working with notable actors such as Daniel Craig and Chris Hemsworth. His fitness routines and dedication to maintaining a muscular physique are often discussed in interviews. Following a back surgery in 2020, Hanton made headlines when he decided to abstain from alcohol for a year after experiencing complications while on pain medication. He has since moderated his drinking habits, reportedly consuming only one or two drinks per week.
The couple’s connection reportedly blossomed at the Red Lion pub in Fareham, Hampshire, where they were seen enjoying a relaxed evening together. A post on the pub’s Facebook page highlighted their visit, noting that they engaged in a game of pool and charmed the staff’s children.
James, 36, has had a tumultuous romantic history. Her longest relationship was with actor Matt Smith, which ended in 2019 after five years. In October 2020, she was photographed with married actor Dominic West, a moment that stirred significant media attention. More recently, she dated musician Michael Shuman, the bassist of rock band Queens of the Stone Age, from 2021 until 2023.
As James navigates her new relationship, her friends are hoping she finds the balance between her adventurous spirit and her desire for stability. With both partners coming from high-profile backgrounds, their relationship continues to attract public interest.
