Rachel Zoe, the 54-year-old star of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, has publicly confirmed that she was the one who sought a divorce from her husband, Rodger Berman, after nearly three decades together. The couple, who began their relationship over 33 years ago, announced their separation in September 2024, and Zoe filed for divorce in July 2025.
Zoe’s Journey of Independence
During an interview with People, Zoe expressed her perspective on the end of her marriage, stating, “When I made the decision to leave my marriage, it was like, okay, next.” She emphasized the importance of financial and emotional independence, which she believes contributed to her ability to move forward.
Zoe has spoken about how many women in her life are currently facing similar challenges, noting that “probably at least 30% of the women in my life are going through a separation or a divorce.” She reflected on the question she often receives: “Why am I so okay coming out of a relationship that really transcended my entire adult life?” Her response highlights her belief in the power of independence.
She added, “You have to have your own things to wake up for every day. I think because of that, when I made the decision to leave my marriage, it was like, okay, next.” This strong sense of self-reliance has played a crucial role in her journey through the divorce.
Life After Divorce and Family Commitment
Zoe initially met Berman in 1991 while they were students at George Washington University. They married in 1996 and have two children together, sons Skyler, 14, and Kaius, 11. In her announcement regarding the split, she stated, “After 33 years together and 26 years married, Rodger and I have come to the mutual decision to end our marriage.” She further emphasized their commitment to co-parenting their children and maintaining their family bond.
Throughout their relationship, Zoe has built a successful career in fashion, working with numerous high-profile clients and gaining recognition for her distinctive style. She acknowledged the support she received from friends and clients during difficult times, stating that they helped her realize the importance of self-identity beyond public perception.
As Zoe prepares to share her experiences on the upcoming season of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, she remains focused on presenting an authentic representation of her life and the challenges many face in personal relationships. The new season premieres on December 4, where she will discuss her journey and the realities of navigating life post-divorce.
