Families and friends gathered at the Severn Hospice in Bicton, Shrewsbury, on December 7, 2023, for the annual Lights of Love service. This cherished event, designed to provide solace and connection for those who have lost loved ones, featured an evening filled with carols, readings, and moments of reflection.
Despite the chilly and blustery weather, attendees found warmth in the shared love and support. Musicians from the Key Change Choir and the Wem Jubilee Brass Band performed traditional carols and festive favorites, enhancing the emotional atmosphere of the evening. Hospice nurses distributed candles, creating a stunning visual backdrop against the night sky as the ceremony unfolded.
A heartfelt highlight was the performance by Faye Hudson, a local pianist and singer whose mother received care at the hospice. Faye delivered a moving rendition of Ed Sheeran’s “Photograph,” which resonated deeply with the audience. She also performed “Fields of Gold,” further touching the hearts of those gathered. Reflecting on her experience, Faye shared, “Mum would be very proud. I’ve been to Lights of Love before and know how much comfort it brings – it’s lovely to be part of it this year.”
Among those present was Chris Pryce from Shrewsbury, who attended in memory of his late wife, Christine, who passed away in December 2019 at the age of 71. Joined by their daughters, Julia Williams and Georgina Verrin, Chris recounted his experience during Christine’s final days. “I stayed with her and she died in my arms,” he recalled. “The support the hospice gave helped us no end. Every morning they came in and asked what I wanted for breakfast, allowing me to stay with her.” Georgina added, “It allowed him to be her husband instead of her carer.”
Another attendee, Meryl Jones, remembered her husband Michael, who died in September 2021 at the age of 85. Accompanied by their granddaughter, Rachael Empson, Meryl expressed gratitude for the hospice’s support. “This is the fourth year I’ve attended Lights of Love. They do amazing work,” she said. Rachael echoed her sentiments, noting, “They’re just lovely people who go the extra mile.”
John Byron from Bishop’s Castle also participated to honor his late wife, Jill, who passed away in March 2021 at the age of 76. He has made the trip to Lights of Love for several years, recalling the tremendous care provided by hospice nurses during Jill’s illness. “They really helped in a difficult time. I don’t know what I’d have done without them,” John said, visibly emotional.
A large Christmas tree adorned the center of the gathering, illuminated with countless tiny lights, each dedicated to the memory of someone special. John Adams, a funeral director from Bridgnorth and advocate for bereavement education, hosted the evening. The hospice’s community services manager, Debbie Morris, and Janet Holmes from the chaplaincy service also shared poignant words of comfort.
Heather Tudor, CEO of the Severn Hospice, emphasized the importance of such gatherings during the festive season. “Christmas can be a very difficult time for many, and we know that Lights of Love offers a moment of peace and comfort,” she stated. “Standing shoulder to shoulder with others who have similar experiences can provide a sense of togetherness.”
In 2023, Severn Hospice cared for nearly 3,000 local families facing incurable illnesses, spending approximately £26,526 daily on their care. A significant portion of funding comes from donations, events, and legacies, alongside revenue from their network of shops. Throughout the festive period, dedications for the Lights of Love tree and further donations can be made online at severnhospice.org.uk/lights.
